Thursday, January 27, 2011

American Idol

Be warned...I'm about to get on my soapbox...


As a musician, I have very mixed feelings about American Idol.  On one hand, it does a great thing for talented people.  On the other hand:

* Nobody in the real world uses the word 'pitch-y'.  Say 'not in tune'...

*  It is literally painful when they put some of these people on TV.

*  Why must everyone who sings a song from the Lion King be AWFUL!?

*  Do we really need to encourage people who can't sing?

*  Kids are going to grow up thinking that whenever they audition for something the judges are going to laugh at them.

*  I hate that they change to 'folk-ish' music when someone horrible is about to sing.

All that said, I can't help but watch, and I really like the addition of Stephen Tyler...


Ok, I'm getting off my soapbox now.  Thanks for listening.

Friday, January 21, 2011

Reese's Rebellion

Reese isn't supposed to be on the furniture...not sure what this is all about.

Monday, January 17, 2011

Meaningful Monday (just go with it...)

“A true friend is someone who, upon seeing another friend in pain, would rather be the one experiencing the pain than to have to watch their friend suffer.”

Friday, January 14, 2011

Random thoughts on grief and joy...

Those of you who know me will recall that the last two years have been pretty rough.  Here's a recap:

April 19, 2009 Memaw passed away from lung cancer
November 29, 2009 Becky (the roomie's Mom) passed away after a long battle with kidney disease
January 14, 2010 Grammy passed away from lung cancer

In the midst of these three great losses there was also some other 'yucky stuff' going on that made life even less fun. 

As you can imagine at this time last year I felt like life pretty much sucked....and considering all that I had been through in the previous year, few people were going to disagree with me. 

About a month after Grammy's funeral a precious friend and I had lunch.  It must have been aparent to her how much I was hurting.  She said to me, "Carissa, I know that things are really hard right now but don't let it take away your joy."  I spent a lot of time thinking about this.  At the time of our conversation I wasn't ready to be joyful or rejoice about anything!  Three people I loved had died, several relationships in my life weren't where they should be, I didn't love my job...forget being joyful! 

Psalm 94:19 When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought me joy.

As time passed, I began to realize that my friend was right.  Although some really crummy things were happening in my life, I had reasons to rejoice.  My two grandmothers and my sweet friend Becky were in HEAVEN, my family was healthy, I had a good job and great friends. As the year progressed I was given even more reason to rejoice when I was blessed with two beautiful nephews. 

So, that brings me to today...the anniversary of the day that Grammy died.  I won't lie and say that I wasn't a little sad today but I was also able to rejoice!  Instead of living in a cancer ridden body here on this earth my Gram is in Heaven.  I have so much to rejoice about knowing that I will someday see my loved ones again. 

On this day, the last of the "one year anniversaries", I'll leave you with a song that Grammy and I sang many, many times:

When you're feeling down
Feeling kinda bluesy,
Just go down to Grammy's house
And jump in her jacuzzi!

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Aiden Gaga

It seems that Aiden has been influenced by his mom's taste in music...


Christmas 2010

As usual, I had the pleasure of celebrating Christmas on several different days with several different parts of my family.  Here's the story of my Christmas in pictures:

Christmas #1 at home with the roomies and the puppies.



Andrea got boots from her sister.  They were a HUGE hit!




Reese digging in his stocking...he didn't know what to do with so many treats at once!



Christmas #2 was in Amarillo.  There were other people there, but the only pictures I took were of Aiden...hmm...



Christmas #3 was with Mom, Dale, Toby, Shane and Katie in Wichita Falls






Do people in the service industry take advantage of women?